Lighting A Candle For Peace

Living with attitudes of being compassionate and empowering dignity allows us to transform our suffering, pain or pasts into productive, beneficial healing, growth and change.   Tomorrow is the second Sunday of the Advent which illuminates the theme of peace. So moving forward, on this edition of “Becoming Today”, let’s give it a chance. Peace canContinue reading “Lighting A Candle For Peace”


Changes can be quick, sudden, even unexpected but  more often than not they are gradual and develop over time. This process also involves effort, dedication and commitment. On this edition of “Becoming Today” we’ll discuss what to do when you’re waiting to embrace change.  Are you accepting change in your life? Has it happened yet?Continue reading “Purposefully,…”

Looking In Our Mirror

Is it just me or is another year just flying by? Here we are at the end of another week, the 48th of the year, Christmas is just 27 days away and we are closing in on the approach of a new month. Today is also the 600th conversation we’ve shared here. So let’s takeContinue reading “Looking In Our Mirror”

Accent on Advent

As we flip another page on the calendar here on “Becoming Today”, you’ll see tomorrow is the day that many will light  the first candle of the “Advent season”. Also known in the East as the “Nativity Feast”, and in other traditions the “Annunciation”,  the Christmas season is officially here as we have one cycle,Continue reading “Accent on Advent”

Acting Affirmatively

So as the title suggests on this edition of “Becoming Today”, we’ll discuss how you can take action to affirm positivity and gratitude. Affirmations are about affirming action. It is an action word. A state we need to achieve in order to enable us to be propelled towards our dreams, desires, our destinies. What areContinue reading “Acting Affirmatively”

Gratefully Giving Thanks

More than a play on  words it’s a call to reclaim the power of the coming day and in each and everyone of us. Giving thanks is empowering, healing, uplifting and inspiring and it can all be yours.  Ahead of tomorrow’s US observance, we’ll go beyond the headlines and explore the infinite power of thanksgivingContinue reading “Gratefully Giving Thanks”

Trusting Yourself

Today we approach another of those steps on the path to “Becoming Today” that at times can sound easier than it is. To develop strong positive self esteem is more than just saying you want to. It takes work, hard work, deeply personal work and concentrated effort.  Let’s start with some shared definitions. First selfContinue reading “Trusting Yourself”

Due Diligence

This conversation is motivated by an expression we don’t hear too much. At least not unless I’m talking to myself. “With due diligence….” See. When was the last time you heard it? I know. That’s why we’ll begin by drafting a common understanding of what it means. Then discuss why it’s important plus how weContinue reading “Due Diligence”


No matter what it is you may currently be going through, you can do so in a state of peace. This edition of “Becoming Today”, will focus on finding peace in the midst of whatever you may be enduring. Peace can have many meanings. From the dictionary among the offering of definitions are: -a stateContinue reading “Outlasting”

Refocusing: Favor – Able

I always believe people see things right when they need to. Following an unexpected conversation where a stranger stopped me on the street I know now is the time to revisit and refocus upon a discussion we first shared some time ago. Yes  I realize the grammar police will be quick to point out, it’sContinue reading “Refocusing: Favor – Able”

If You’re Not Receiving…

… then it may be because you’re not giving. Let’s embark upon a renewal of our discussion along this shared journey.  On this edition of Becoming Today we’ll discuss three things I believe every person on this planet not only wants but truly deserves.  These elements are worthy of an acronym so let’s begin withContinue reading “If You’re Not Receiving…”

Commitments or Covenants?

Not long ago I asked for your input. I told you that coming soon,we would be undertaking a discussion about commitments. But wait,… there’s more. What I didn’t tell you was I was having a bit of a quandary myself about commitments, covenants, the differences between the two, and whether or not my standards wereContinue reading “Commitments or Covenants?”

Choose Wisely

Choices and decisions definitely have the attention of headlines as we begin this week together along our shared path. So on this edition of “Becoming Today”, let’s examine why Grandma also said to do this… Words have meaning. The words we choose truly do make a difference. It’s the motivation behind them that defines howContinue reading “Choose Wisely”

Gratefully Reviewing

Another week has come to an end. During these preceding days we ventured into a new month and a new season of focus. In addition to our year long intention to “Resurrect Positivity”. November we are also determined to express “Thankfully” for all that  our shared paths bring us to and to us. So onContinue reading “Gratefully Reviewing”

Gratefully Detaching Lovingly

I’ve mentioned that sometimes I struggle with concepts that just seem to get stuck in my head. So how to get them out of there or release them all together? Today’s phrase deals with that very issue. Let’s embrace the idea of Lovingly Detaching on this edition of “Becoming Today”. While the essence of “Becoming”Continue reading “Gratefully Detaching Lovingly”

Are You Deciding to Decide?

As the election season continues, we are entering our final week to make some important decisions regarding the future, our direction and the what kind of lives we want to live. On this edition of “Becoming Today” we’ll examine some of the steps towards making better decisions. Decisions are something that apparently more than aContinue reading “Are You Deciding to Decide?”

Expectant Living

We’ll begin our week with some eager anticipation, but first some notes for our shared calendars. We’ve made it through another month and whether you’re viewing it as a “Trick” or a “Treat”, tomorrow will bring us a new day, a new month and a new month long celebration. Here in the United States, inContinue reading “Expectant Living”

Incorruptible Adherence

On this edition of “Becoming Today”, as the headline suggests our conversation will focus on a virtuous, moral and ethical aspect of our lives that is not-optional. Nothing like starting a weekend with a little light reading, right? Integrity.  What is it? Why is it so important?  How do we ensure we are living withContinue reading “Incorruptible Adherence”